Thursday, August 13, 2015

Recognize your opportunities in life

Greetings and thanks for reading this week’s edition of Strength and Focus on NEPA Scene. Today we’ll be discussing opportunities in life. Whether you know it or not, we are all presented with tens maybe even hundreds of opportunities a day, and if you chunk down and get specific enough, possibly even thousands.

Are you someone that takes advantage of opportunities that are presented to you?

Do you take the opportunity to create opportunities?

Do you understand where I’m going with both of these questions or are you shaking your head in confusion or uncertainty?

If the latter, perhaps you’ve heard yourself say or think, “I don’t have the same opportunities as other people,” and if that’s the case, perhaps you do have the same opportunities as other people you just need to learn to recognize them.

Each day you have countless opportunities to make things happen. Some opportunities are presented and some are created. Your objective is to learn to recognize them and take action. You are responsible for your actions with every opportunity taken; likewise, you’re also responsible for opportunities thrown aside or when you’re impotent to act. I discuss this in much greater detail in my chapter, “Transform Pebbles Into Mountains” from The Change – Insights Into Self-Empowerment book series.
The greatest achievers are those who recognize opportunities and take immediate action. Sir Richard Branson is quoted as saying, “If someone offers you an amazing opportunity and you’re not sure you can do it, say yes – then learn how to do it later.” He’s not the first to utter these words. One of the best-selling personal development authors of all-time, Napoleon Hill (author of Think and Grow Rich and The Law of Success among others) constantly encourages the reader to take opportunity throughout his works. Hill describes numerous stories of entrepreneurs who amassed great success and wealth because they had the insight to realize opportunity knocking and the initiative to take proper action.

What about you? Have you easily recognized and taken opportunities in the past or do you hold regrets? Do you have memories of proud triumphs or does the fog of what if haunt you at night? Successful people are able to make quick and clear decisions while unsuccessful people are hesitant, often going back and forth between options, and excuse themselves under the false assurance of waiting for the next time.

So how does one learn to recognize opportunities? As stated before, opportunities can be both created and presented. Perhaps you’ll generate opportunities for yourself by building a blog to share your expertise with potential clients or maybe you’ll volunteer your services pro bono to market your business within the community. Imagine a colleague offers a chance to collaborate on a group project or invites you to attend a networking event, do you choose to accept even if it means restructuring your schedule and priorities for the greater good or do you decline and wait for the next time because you’re too busy? Are you already in the habit of making and taking opportunities for yourself and your career? If yes – great! What are your results? If no – isn’t this something that could help you produce better results in your personal and/or professional life?

As you go about your day, consider the people, events, and activities in your life; begin to monitor opportunities that are presented and those that you create.
If you’re interested in learning to recognize opportunities so that you can take greater action, contact me – - and I’ll send you a 10-page resource guide, as a gift because you’re an active reader of my column. I’m sure you’ll find this resource guide extremely helpful and beneficial.

Audio resource to compliment the 10-page guide.

As always, thanks for reading and Be Excellent!

Monday, August 3, 2015

Dani DiLarso Drives NEPA Delivering Clothing and Kindness

Greetings and thanks for reading this week’s edition of Strength and Focus (column found on NEPA Scene). As you know, this column is centered on providing resources and tips to empower mind and body to create a better you; we also like to feature individuals who are empowered to create a better community here in NEPA. I recently interviewed Dani DiLarso, an extraordinary and passionate young woman who drives (literally) around NEPA to collect and distribute clothing to those in need.

I had the pleasure of meeting Dani a few months ago at a networking mixer hosted by the NEPA Networkers group. In our first meeting, she made a wonderful impression as she displayed a cheerful smile, love for life, and radiated a genuine interest in helping others. Her work is truly inspiring and I’m proud to present this week’s interview.

NEPA SCENE: Please tell us a little about yourself
Dani DiLarso: My name is Danielle but I have been called Dani (Correct way to spell it) by many people since I was born, due to the fad my Grandmother started by spelling my name D-a-n-n-y. (Yes, like a boy) My mother prefers to call me Danielle. I was born in Upland, PA (No, I don’t know where that is) and have moved every 3-7 years since I was born. (No, I am not an Army Brat). I am most recently from Brooklyn, NY and have been living in NEPA for a little over one year. I have severe all year round allergies, a reptile obsession, a French fry fetish, and I want to work with baby monkeys.

NEPA SCENE: Tell us about your clothing drive
Dani DiLarso: It started in NYC when I would go through my entire wardrobe and pick out clothes to give to friends. Friends who had a low income and therefore could not afford to shop. It just made sense to me to help the people I know first. Then I started throwing bags of clothes in the bin in Union Square where proceeds would go towards keeping events alive in the Square. Now, in NEPA I collect clothes (always from people I know or friends of friends so I don’t get kidnapped) shoes, accessories. I load the bags into my car, carry them up 3 flights of stairs, and go through each bag making new bags based on the organizations needs and wants. Bring them back down the steps, load up the car, and drive around dropping them off at the organizations I donate to in Scranton, PA. If anyone has ever donated a huge garbage bag full of clothes, then you know how heavy they can be on someone who is 105 pounds with a herniated disk to be lugging around. It is a heavy hobby that I have chosen. I donate to places that will give away these items for free to their people in need, not a place that will sell these items to people in need. That makes no sense to me.  

NEPA SCENE: What started you on this path to help other?
Dani DiLarso: I have to say that NYC put me on this path whether I wanted to be on it or not and taught me to enjoy helping others. You can’t NOT help someone in NYC, that is just not possible, unless of course you are evil. I would walk by people in dire need all day, every day, and at first it made me sick to my stomach and I would cry about it. Then I got used to it, just like you would anything else. And instead of crying about it, I tried to help. I suppose I found my purpose on this planet. If I were a trust fund baby I would be able to do more. But in the meantime, I do this.   

NEPA SCENE: How long have you been doing the clothing drive?
Dani DiLarso: The actual Double Di’s Clothing Drive I have only been doing for about 3 months.

NEPA SCENE: What is your goal?
Dani DiLarso: To hopefully make people smile by receiving a shirt that does not have a hole in it.

NEPA SCENE: Do you have help from others or is this something that you do alone?
Dani DiLarso: I do the physical work alone. Which will need to change soon because of my bad back, but I would say all of my friends fully support this and help me by donating many bags. It also helps when they spread the word to their family and friends for me.

NEPA SCENE: Do you give the clothes directly to those in need or are they delivered to a middle person/company?  
Dani DiLarso: I will pick up your bag personally or meet somewhere reasonable. Once organization is complete, I bring the bags to the institute and the employees take it from there.

NEPA SCENE: What is the response?
Dani DiLarso: Very high. I have a group on Facebook called Double Di Clothing Drives almost at 100 LIKES and I have a car full of bags every week. I also had my first Fundraiser at the AFA Gallery for Here We Are in Spain where I received 10 bags from 10 people in the audience. That is a lot for a little car. 

NEPA SCENE: You’re involved in other community projects, can you tell us about them?
Dani DiLarso: While I cannot afford to join a “club or group,” I join all the FREE ones. So when I am able, I randomly show up to donate my time to people or animals in need. I have also paid for Baseball Games and Paint Nights where proceeds go towards charity, or else I probably would have declined. I like to see where my money is going, since I have so little of it.

NEPA SCENE: How can people get involved to assist your work?
Dani DiLarso: I would appreciate it if people followed my page on Facebook and helped spread the word to their family and friends. Please Remember: “If you have not worn that (garment) this past year, you aren’t going to start.” People are always looking for ways to get involved; this is something super simple that you can do that does not require any money or travel. Clothes, shoes, and accessories are something we ALL have and something we ALL need to get rid of!

NEPA SCENE: If someone (or family) is in need of clothing especially during the colder months, whom should they contact?
Dani DiLarso: If you know someone personally that is in need, I have no problem bringing them a bag that suits their needs and wants. Just let me know.
NEPA SCENE: Do you have any other projects coming up?
Dani DiLarso: I am going to have a 2nd fundraiser coming up that you can keep a look out for J

NEPA SCENE: How can people reach you?
Dani DiLarso: Private message me on Facebook in my Double Di Clothing Drives page or email me here

NEPA SCENE: Is there anything else you would like to share with NEPA Scene?
Dani DiLarso: Where can I find a Salad and Bubble Tea in NEPA?

As always, thank you for reading and be excellent!
Also, please support Dani in helping others. We all have clothing and accessories that we no longer wear so please consider donating them to someone who could benefit. Your kindness and generosity would truly be appreciated.